tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.comments2023-11-02T04:27:11.019-05:00All Grown UpSadiqua: Head Mistress, S.O.S. Inc.http://www.blogger.com/profile/06777494042086431723noreply@blogger.comBlogger75125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-84676679203298921572009-11-09T10:04:46.174-05:002009-11-09T10:04:46.174-05:00Im so proud of you!!! I see you are doing the damn...Im so proud of you!!! I see you are doing the damn thang...Being grown and holding your own...I know exactly what you are going through with the girls..Hell I'm married with a partner and never get a break!! Nel doesn't want to give you a break b/c he knows what you're going to do on your break..LOL!! It'll get better when the girls get older. I promise.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-90802617035521452782009-10-23T00:06:26.689-05:002009-10-23T00:06:26.689-05:00I liked it..As a parent we always struggle to feed...I liked it..As a parent we always struggle to feed our kids healthy foods but we all know how important it is to feed them the right kind of food. Unfortunately we are living in a time when food is available everywhere ,these foods tastes good but does not carry any nutritional benefit so its our responsibility to stop our kids from choosing these bad foods. If we make a little change in our meal menu and preparation we can definitely see our kids <a href="http://www.habitchanger.com/feedingyourkids?track=FeedingYourKidsOP" rel="nofollow">choosing right food</a><br />.paulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17693618422211517106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-13148888571002947442009-08-21T12:12:28.488-05:002009-08-21T12:12:28.488-05:00I have to add Mrs doesnt have enough money but ste...I have to add Mrs doesnt have enough money but steady piles groceries in my cart and then after the cashier rings everything up you are one by one taking things off the bill... ugugghhEb the Celebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12920888116302185562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-50556847942826988432009-08-19T00:02:22.645-05:002009-08-19T00:02:22.645-05:00Again i love this post..Im gonna send this directl...Again i love this post..Im gonna send this directly to my pest (EX) n tell him to take notes**LADY**https://www.blogger.com/profile/00361884208698207551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-51292654456942724742009-08-18T23:46:35.617-05:002009-08-18T23:46:35.617-05:00I get these same type letters from my EX that cant...I get these same type letters from my EX that cant seem to get it in his head he's an EX...Dont you just hate it. You'd think i was lying if i said mine say the EXACT same thing**LADY**https://www.blogger.com/profile/00361884208698207551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-18841828285133771472009-08-18T23:40:39.735-05:002009-08-18T23:40:39.735-05:00OMG!!! I work for Wachovia and we actually have to...OMG!!! I work for Wachovia and we actually have to give out the lollipops as a way to show we go out of our way to please you(the customer) BUT.....I ask the parent quietly 1st b4 i offer it to the kids. B/C i know sum parents prefer kids not to have them.**LADY**https://www.blogger.com/profile/00361884208698207551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-59249334020988035402009-08-15T00:38:36.033-05:002009-08-15T00:38:36.033-05:00you two should alternate.. come to a compromiseyou two should alternate.. come to a compromisexxxxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11212453694052415174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-50199271689164479652009-08-13T16:44:25.795-05:002009-08-13T16:44:25.795-05:00I think if you have full custody he should either ...I think if you have full custody he should either come see you OR pick up your children and take them back with him. You can't be expected to do it all and given you are working and caring for the children, the burden of responsibility to travel to see the kids is entirely on him, and that is REASONABLE. Hang in there.Fayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08487951863923529968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-41690770118485084282009-08-13T16:44:24.405-05:002009-08-13T16:44:24.405-05:00I think if you have full custody he should either ...I think if you have full custody he should either come see you OR pick up your children and take them back with him. You can't be expected to do it all and given you are working and caring for the children, the burden of responsibility to travel to see the kids is entirely on him, and that is REASONABLE. Hang in there.Fayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08487951863923529968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-54352608124318206122009-08-10T19:55:21.236-05:002009-08-10T19:55:21.236-05:00Alternate is best. and i hope everything worked ou...Alternate is best. and i hope everything worked out.<br /><br />http://jblovly.blogspot.com<br /><br />follow me, i'm following you. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-20179550373999264362009-07-24T17:19:21.856-05:002009-07-24T17:19:21.856-05:00I agree with dalioness. He needs to alternate and ...I agree with dalioness. He needs to alternate and take them for the weekend. Him haveing them at his house with you watching them is NOT being a father. he needs to step up and take on alone time with them. And I mean more than a day trip or u running to the store.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16610424780671733287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-14984008355882520812009-07-21T11:19:36.985-05:002009-07-21T11:19:36.985-05:00LMAOOOO i loooved these!!! every single one...lo...LMAOOOO i loooved these!!! every single one...loved it and hate those ppl too!!!thundacathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11340257521408332524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-56564712720117568192009-07-01T09:47:44.375-05:002009-07-01T09:47:44.375-05:00Set up a neutral meeting spot...He needs to get th...Set up a neutral meeting spot...He needs to get the girls and keep them for the weekend...I say alternate every other weekend...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-72948121399147663612009-06-30T08:45:04.119-05:002009-06-30T08:45:04.119-05:00Also, please understand that if you do go forward ...Also, please understand that if you do go forward with the child support he may disappear completely. The law only obligates the non-custodial parent to make the payments each month. The law does not care about making the father spend time with the children or anything beyond the payments. Once he makes the payments, he is free to do as he pleases and never see the child again for the rest of it's life if he so chooses. Unless you specify joint custody...then you would have to pay him when the children are staying with him. It gets messy...<br /><br />Be careful in your decisions, the law is a two-sided razor that cuts just as much as it could help...<br /><br /><br />=[<br />DmDmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12106999922150236540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-22734645046133705972009-06-30T08:41:53.102-05:002009-06-30T08:41:53.102-05:00Wow. Please understand that I don't know you, ...Wow. Please understand that I don't know you, I just found your blog today. <br /><br />You are being really nice to this deadbeat brotha. I have a child and I know how much it costs to take care of one and even being married it isn't easy. I only have one child with my wife and I struggle, you have two and are living with your parents. <br /><br />I commend you for being the strong sensible smart one and I condemn "Nel" for being the stereotypical piece-of-crap black man that our society seems to have so many of.<br /><br />I hate to say that the courts need to get involved because I know how awful the system is...<br /><br />But something or someone needs to give this deadbeat a beatdown...er wake up call. <br /><br />For his kids sakes...<br /><br />Sincerely,<br />DmDmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12106999922150236540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-69409476663180102372009-06-27T20:09:13.163-05:002009-06-27T20:09:13.163-05:00well, I would say just let him keep coming to get ...well, I would say just let him keep coming to get them. BUT... its not totally fair so I think alternating is most fair. he should also think of your job though and sometimes if he really wants to see them and you cant bring them, then he should come get em.tampagirlAPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11932619756563804541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-31325496542447961182009-06-26T10:14:05.634-05:002009-06-26T10:14:05.634-05:00Naw I don't think so. But I agree with liliooh...Naw I don't think so. But I agree with lilioohpyt you guys should alternate. he should also realize that with you working now there are going to be times when if he truly wants to see the kids he needs to come see them.JSADTheKinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12276410147941152900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-38138076418958896342009-06-25T16:39:14.244-05:002009-06-25T16:39:14.244-05:00I think ya'll should alternate. If he expects...I think ya'll should alternate. If he expects you to bring the kids to see him then he can still come to see them.Lilioohpythttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13875807827941902104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-4905639062458421082009-06-24T14:55:06.495-05:002009-06-24T14:55:06.495-05:00I might be mister loud phone call guy if I'm o...I might be mister loud phone call guy if I'm on the pphone with my boy and the shyt is funny I might be loud. LOLJSADTheKinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12276410147941152900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-76081072954298924142009-06-24T09:36:26.760-05:002009-06-24T09:36:26.760-05:00I hate people who get their nails done and their h...I hate people who get their nails done and their hair is always jacked up!!! How the hell can your nails take priority over your hair?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-25916069844418184122009-06-24T09:29:13.932-05:002009-06-24T09:29:13.932-05:00Are you serious?? Where the hell is you and your p...Are you serious?? Where the hell is you and your parents thank you for taking care of his child so well??? Niggas kill me thinking that the lil money they give is enough to suffice...Child support is more than your monthly payment..Support is food,shelter,clothes,co-pays,birthday parties,extracurricular activites,medicine,childcare,gas to take them back and forth,necessities..All that has to be split in half so 75 dollars aint nearly enough to cover it!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-83631650581559032542009-06-20T02:54:54.895-05:002009-06-20T02:54:54.895-05:00oh and yea go for that child support thru the cour...oh and yea go for that child support thru the courts! i tried to be nice and shit w/ my oldest daughters dad for a yr and a half but u get nowhere being nice, cus like u said, they like to give u sprinkles! eff that!tampagirlAPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11932619756563804541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-3879088178004211492009-06-20T02:52:57.392-05:002009-06-20T02:52:57.392-05:00yea I feel u!!! idk y these boys get options cus w...yea I feel u!!! idk y these boys get options cus we sure dont! we have to take care of the kids and they can decide to just whenever they feel like it!tampagirlAPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11932619756563804541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-18685891252002436252009-06-19T12:33:38.675-05:002009-06-19T12:33:38.675-05:00Hi there!
It is absolutely NECESSARY to involve t...Hi there!<br /><br />It is absolutely <b>NECESSARY</b> to involve the courts.<br /><br />If a man does not marry you and make a legal commitment to you before deciding to have children, then he is already handling his priorities <b>OUT OF ORDER</b>!<br /><br />The court will garnish his wages or put him in jail. It's tight but it's right.LISA VAZQUEZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13583559303233985031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575440304115231345.post-65200268394989945112009-06-14T18:36:44.509-05:002009-06-14T18:36:44.509-05:00If I were you I would take him to court because he...If I were you I would take him to court because he is causing your child to suffer. I am sure your child is being taken care of but if he chipped in like he is SUPPOSED she would be taken care of way better.Mz.Papayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10814184482155239541noreply@blogger.com